I would like to take this opportunity to rant into cyberspace, rather than at my parents. Don't get me wrong, i love and respect them with all my heart, but this issue has gone on far too long. What am i on about? "The Wedding". A piece of paper and a chunk of metal doesnt define my relationship. so why is ONE DAY in all my life being made such a huge issue out of.
Yes, i have read every bridal and even non bridal magazine, book, webpage, brochure etc and i know my stuff. I have researched the prices and packages of every single suitable place. I had come up with the perfect solution. It was agreed upon. And then, after all my work, time, research, negotiations and stress, they dismiss it. And by dismissing it they are dismissing me. Oh i know this is mostly my mothers doing but my father has to agree with her to keep the peace. I get that, what i dont get is why drag it out?
Seriously, if it didnt mean so much to me for my dad to walk me down the aisle, it would be elopement all the way. Weve talked about it, B and I, and its certainly a viable option. Im going to wait until the storm passes before i make rash decisions. But for the moment im completely off their radar and it is shitting my mother no end. Two can play that game my precious.
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